Among the many children that I never knew how many there were, I was the only one to be adopted. This became my first more pronounced emotional brand, the origin of the light and the shadow in all the potential that want to express in the world. From that emotional place emanates my deep gratitude for the opportunity to be loved by two families, and my deepest indignation at the fact that at this very moment many children are killed without ever having been loved except for the creative source to which all return.
I believe in this love that dwells within each individual as the source of the solution for all the problems we have created as a society. One can look at my 20 years of practice as an organizational psychologist, manager, consultant, teacher, and say “well, well, well … Darlene, what have you been doing?”, And you will find me coming to the same finding: seeking address the lack of love in this world!
To conclude that the lack of love for oneself can not be met. The full collective life of intelligence, creativity, giving and joy that we all want and deserve can not spring from another heart than the one who distinguishes move from action. I can not act on anyone, but I can help those who initiate the movement to rescue the intrinsic love, recognizing that life itself is sacred. I am involved in the Art of Hosting Conversations that Matter community, in the Gaia Education Program, I am close to Dragon Dreaming community, I am present in Women Circles and observing the evolution of Nonviolent Communication, Social Entrepreneurship and Economic Solidarity because I believe these forces that move the power of Love emerging from each of the word in the sense of community, in offering an attentive listening and a heart inspired by the courage and consideration for themselves, for others, for nature, for life.
The second emotional brand that now defines the quality of my presence was a near-death experience , 11 years ago, during which I had what I call a ” wholeness flash .” As always, a situation of this magnitude “it’s a gift and it’s the curse.” The gift of returning to life with the memory of what is to be connected, immersed into the infinite awareness, where you can see how everything is indeed connected, carries the curse of walking the Earth without fear of death, which ends up being a feature somewhat bizarre in a society manipulated by the logic of scarcity, competition and the cult of eternal youth . But the absence of fear of finitude traces the lines of my work every day because I do not support or corroborate with manipulation of perception games, not food vanities fires or give materials to hypocrisy, and this vibration influences people around me.
Today, whether as a coach, consultant , speaker or facilitator groups, I put my intelligence and energy to sustain an inner balance that allows me to be at the service of humanity offering, from these two experiences , the most restorative light to as many as who cross my path, and that’s why I want to spend the Warriors by Human Spirit program that, friends say, “it is your thing !” Truly, the program description is something that seems to summarize a practice that come already honing for years, but I hope I bring more structure and strength to continue serving the most lucid and useful way possible.
DARLENE CRISTINA RABELLO COELHO:
Graduada em Psicologia pela USP, onde atuou na equipe de consultoria do Projeto Saúde Mental e Trabalho; mestre em Psicologia Social e do Trabalho pela UnB- Universidade de Brasília; especialista em Gestão Empresarial e GBA em Responsabilidade Social Corporativa pela Fundação Getúlio Vargas; atuou como gestora de Recursos Humanos em empresas de grande porte (Globocabo, Caixa Seguros e Natura Cosméticos), desenvolvendo políticas corporativas e gerenciando projetos de Recrutamento e Seleção, Treinamento e Desenvolvimento, Planejamento Estratégico, Clima Organizacional e Responsabilidade Social. Docente das disciplinas Administração de Recursos Humanos, Responsabilidade Social Corporativa, Sustentabilidade, Gestão de Equipes, Gestão de Conflitos, Integração e Desenvolvimento no Ensino Superior e cursos de MBA na ESIC Business and Marketing School e na Estação Business School; representou a UNIBRASIL como membro do Conselho Paranaense de Cidadania Empresarial, junto ao Programa das Nações Unidas para o Desenvolvimento- Objetivos do Milênio e na força-tarefa da ONU para Formação de Lideranças. Consultora sênior para a VB &Associados. Palestrante e consultora em Responsabilidade Social Corporativa/ Sustentabilidade /Ética empresarial/Indicadores Ethos/Global Reporting Initiative. Membro voluntário do Instituto Nhandecy para organização e execução de projetos e metodologias participativas como Dragon Dreaming, Educação Gaia, Art of Hosting, Investigação Apreciativa, Comunicação Não-Violenta, Círculo de Mulheres, Diálogos para a Paz e Transformação de Conflitos.